Inspired Living: Rethinking Efficiency

Introduction: Embracing the Art of Living

Welcome, fellow seekers of wisdom and meaning. I am Pilgrim Solarrson, a musician and writer who has recently discovered I’m on the wrong path and I’m trying to right the ship. In this writing, I strive to rediscover the path aligned with my true nature, I invite you on a journey of exploration—an exploration of efficiency, the time paradox, and the art of rest.

In the bustling currents of modern (American) society, efficiency has become the revered mantra of progress. We are told that optimizing every moment, maximizing productivity, and squeezing every drop of efficiency from our lives is the key to success and happiness. But in this relentless pursuit, have we lost sight of the profound joys hidden in the unscripted moments of life?

Throughout this article, I invite you to join me in a thoughtful exploration—a departure from the conventional approach.

Each chapter will delve into a unique facet of our relationship with efficiency, the elusive paradox of time, and the transformative power of rest. We will traverse the landscapes of ancient Eastern philosophies, Stoicism, Native American beliefs, and more, weaving their wisdom into our understanding.

As we venture deeper, I will strive to illuminate the ideas beyond their surface, inviting you to contemplate their profound implications on our quest for well-being and meaning.

At the end of each chapter, I will offer you “ideas for further exploration”—thought-provoking concepts that may inspire you to journey even further along the path of introspection.

I draw from diverse sources to enrich our understanding—be it the timeless wisdom of ancient sages or the insights of contemporary thinkers. These sources will serve as guideposts to illuminate the way and add depth to our exploration.

So, fellow traveler, let us embark on this quest together—a journey toward embracing the art of living amidst the ever-present push for efficiency, the timeless paradox of time, and the tranquil embrace of rest.

May this journey lead us to a more balanced and authentic existence, where efficiency is better understood.

Chapter 1: The Rise of Efficiency in Modern Society

For years now, whether in work, with family and friends, or within myself, I couldn’t help but notice the pervasive emphasis on efficiency in every aspect of life. It seemed as if there were endless “life hacks” promising to optimize our time and boost productivity. Vacations became meticulously planned excursions, and even moments of leisure were measured by their potential for productivity. “Gotta get my steps in while on this hike.”

Throughout history, humanity has sought ways to streamline tasks and improve productivity. The roots of this pursuit can be traced back to ancient humans and civilizations that sought to maximize their resources, which led to more complex societies (i.e., more efficient food production allow populations to flourish). From the efficient agricultural practices of ancient Mesopotamia to the precise engineering of the Roman aqueducts, the quest for efficiency has been an integral part of human development.

However, the Industrial Revolution marked a significant turning point in the history of efficiency. With the rise of mechanization, factories, and mass production, the concept of efficiency became a driving force behind the modern world’s progress. Innovations such as the assembly line revolutionized manufacturing and brought a wave of economic prosperity, but at what cost?

As we investigate the impact of efficiency on society, it becomes essential to acknowledge its undeniable contributions. Efficiency has undoubtedly shaped the trajectory of progress, enabling us to accomplish feats once deemed impossible. The desire to streamline processes and increase output has transformed industries and societies, ushering in eras of rapid development and technological advancement. Though, I question the idea that because of the increased efficiency that humanity has increased in well-being across all areas of well-being.

However, the rise of efficiency has not been without its challenges. In our pursuit of optimizing every aspect of life, have we inadvertently distanced ourselves from the joy of spontaneity and the beauty of embracing imperfection? The pressure to constantly achieve and maximize productivity can leave us feeling perpetually rushed, preventing us from savoring the small, unscripted moments that add depth and richness to life. More importantly, it has taken many humans out of touch with nature – not only the great outdoors and the rhythms of the sun but also our human nature. I wrote another article about reclaiming some of our connections to nature: Rediscovering Our Bond with Nature: Reconnecting with Our Evolutionary Roots

In contemplating the pitfalls of an efficiency-driven world, we can draw inspiration from ancient philosophies like Taoism. The Taoists celebrated the natural ebb and flow of life, finding wisdom in simplicity and embracing the rhythm of existence. In our hyper-efficient world, this timeless wisdom offers a guiding light—a reminder to find harmony amidst the cacophony of ceaseless demands. I have found the following sentence to be a useful reminder as I go through my day.

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.

Lao Tzu

Furthermore, we must recognize the importance of striking a balance between productivity and well-being. Efficiency can enhance our lives when applied mindfully, allowing us to accomplish our goals and make time for pursuits that nurture our souls as well as help increase overall well-being in the world. But that is only if what we are doing with our time is out of sync with our nature. If what you do for a living or day to day is aligned with your nature, then efficiency loses much of its importance. For example, I don’t need to efficiently write a piece of music because I enjoy the process of writing and so long as I’m spending time on that activity, I’m not looking to efficiently finish it. Efficiency, like most things when taken to extremes, leads to destruction of nature (humans are a part of nature in my book), to burnout, and a diminished sense of fulfillment.

Ideas for further exploration:

  1. The historical context of efficiency: How have cultures throughout history approached and applied the concept of efficiency, and what can we learn from their experiences?
  2. The role of efficiency in shaping societal values: How has the emphasis on productivity influenced our perception of success and well-being, and what alternative paradigms can we consider?


  • “The Tao Te Ching” by Lao Tzu
  • “The Time Paradox: The New Psychology of Time That Will Change Your Life” by Philip Zimbardo and John Boyd
  • “The Efficiency Paradox: What Big Data Can’t Do” by Edward Tenner

Chapter 2: The Time Paradox: Embracing the Ever-Changing Flow

Time, the elusive force that governs our lives, remains one of humanity’s most intriguing mysteries. As a musician and writer, I have often found myself entranced by its ebb and flow, how in music you are in a sense controlling and notating time and, in a novel, you can manipulate time in the story in fascinating ways. Our perception of time is perplexing, shapes our experiences, and influences the very essence of our being.

In this chapter, we aim to grapple with the enigmatic time paradox—the interplay between our perceptions of time and its objective passage. Theories from psychology, neuroscience, and philosophy offer us insights into this fascinating phenomenon that touches every aspect of our lives.

One such concept that captivates our imagination is the relativity of time, proposed by the theory of relativity in physics. As Einstein revealed, time is not an absolute constant; rather, it is influenced by factors like gravity and velocity. While these cosmic scales might seem distant from our daily lives, the idea of time’s relativity reminds us that our experiences of time are subjective and deeply intertwined with our surroundings.

Our perception of time also varies based on our age and life experiences. As a child, days stretched on endlessly, filled with exploration and wonder. However, as responsibilities and commitments grow, time seems to accelerate, and the days slip away like a swift river current. The philosopher William James once remarked, “The days and weeks smooth themselves out, for us, as we grow older, into a stream so uniform that we cannot readily distinguish its parts.” Such is the essence of the time paradox—the peculiar sensation of time both speeding up and slowing down as we journey through life.

As we embrace the notion of time’s relativity, we must also confront the desire to capture and preserve moments. In the pursuit of efficiency, we usually seek to multitask, trying to squeeze more into the finite hours of a day. Yet, in doing so, we risk missing the beauty of the present moment—the laughter of loved ones, the colors of a sunset, or the joy of creating art. Even just sitting at home watching a movie has become a multi-task event with at least one phone out pulling attention away from focusing on the film.

To look deeper into the intricacies of time, we can draw inspiration from Stoicism—a philosophy that extols the wisdom of living in harmony with the natural order of the universe. Stoic thinkers remind us that we cannot control the passage of time, but we can control how we respond to it. Embracing this perspective allows us to find contentment in the present moment, savoring the journey rather than constantly yearning for destinations yet to come.

In the pursuit of well-being, our relationship with time is a vital cornerstone. Mindfulness practices offer us the tools to anchor ourselves in the present, fostering a deeper appreciation for the fleeting moments that compose our lives. As we cultivate mindfulness, we can free ourselves from the shackles of the past and the anxieties of the future, embracing the fullness of the ever-changing flow of time.

Ideas for further exploration:

  1. The concept of “flow” and its role in our perception of time: How does being fully immersed in an activity alter our perception of time, and what can we learn from these experiences?
  2. The impact of cultural perspectives on time: How do different cultures approach and value time, and how does it influence their values and priorities?
  • “Einstein’s Dreams” by Alan Lightman
  • “The Principles of Psychology” by William James
  • “The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living” by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman

The Art of Rest: Nurturing the Soul Amidst Life’s Hustle

In the frenetic pull of efficiency and productivity, rest often takes a backseat, relegated to, at best, the status of a luxury rather than a necessity. As I endeavor to reclaim my path, I find myself reflecting on the transformative power of rest—a profound art that has the potential to rejuvenate our minds, bodies, and spirits.

Rest is not merely a period of inactivity; it is a deliberate act of nourishing our being. In a society that glorifies constant hustle, embracing the art of rest may seem counterintuitive. Yet, the ancient wisdom of many cultures reminds us of its importance.

Throughout history, civilizations have recognized the significance of rest and dedicated spaces and time to rejuvenate the soul. In ancient Greece, the idea of leisure, or “skole,” was celebrated. Leisure was not idleness but a cherished time for reflection, contemplation, and cultivating one’s passions. Philosophers like Aristotle and Plato extolled the virtues of leisure, seeing it as a vital aspect of a well-lived life.

Aristotle and Plato both valued leisure as a means of achieving virtue and human flourishing². However, they also criticized idleness as a sign of lack of education or moral weakness³⁴.

Source: (2) Aristotle On Why Leisure Defines Us More than Work.
(3) Attitudes to Work and Leisure in Ancient Greece.
(4) Aristotle On Why Leisure Defines Us More Than Work.

Similarly, in medieval Japan, the concept of “forest bathing” emerged. Inspired by the natural beauty of the forests, people would take leisurely walks, immersing themselves in the serenity of nature to replenish their spirits. This practice, known as “Shinrin-yoku,” is still popular today and has been scientifically shown to reduce stress and improve overall well-being.

In the teachings of Taoism, the principle of Yin and Yang symbolizes the balance of opposing forces, including rest and activity. The Yin, associated with stillness and receptivity, complements the Yang, representing action and movement. Just as day turns into night, rest and activity coexist in a rhythmic cycle, each enhancing the other.

To fully appreciate the art of rest, we must redefine its meaning. Rest is not a sign of weakness or laziness; it is an act of self-compassion—an acknowledgment of our humanity and the need to replenish our energy. It is the space where insights and breakthroughs emerge.

In the relentless chase for efficiency, we may become unwittingly entangled in the myth of perpetual productivity—a belief that we must always be striving, achieving, and crossing items off our to-do lists. However, this myth robs us of the vital moments of rest and reflection that are essential for fostering creativity, problem-solving abilities, and emotional well-being.

The great Stoic philosopher Seneca recognized the value of rest when he wrote, “We must indulge the mind and from time to time allow it the leisure which is its food and strength.”

In the digital age, our devices have become constant companions, infiltrating every aspect of our lives. While they offer convenience and connectivity, they can also disrupt our ability to rest and recharge. The boundaries between work and personal life blur as notifications intrude into our moments of leisure. In this digital ecosystem, it becomes even more crucial to carve out sacred spaces for rest – no phones in the bedroom!

By embracing the art of rest, we can foster emotional resilience and develop a deeper connection with our inner selves. In the stillness of rest, we can acknowledge and process our emotions, finding strength and balance even amidst life’s challenges.

I’ll do my best to create a personal culture that honors the art of rest—a culture that understands that true well-being does not come solely from constant productivity but from nurturing the soul amidst life’s hustle.

Chapter 4: Human-Centric Economics: Nurturing Well-Being Beyond Efficiency

The principles of efficiency have often come from the realm of economics. As of late, I’ve come to question the prevailing economic paradigms that prioritize endless growth and productivity over the well-being of individuals and communities.

Economic policies shaped by the pursuit of efficiency may lead to impressive GDP figures and technological advancements, but they can also have unintended consequences on mental health and individual fulfillment. In the quest for economic progress, we risk overlooking the inherent value of human connection, creativity, and emotional well-being.

The “hustle culture” that permeates many aspects of modern life is a testament to the power of efficiency-driven economic ideologies. We are encouraged to constantly push ourselves, to be relentlessly productive, and to measure our self-worth by the number of hours we work along with the number in our bank account. The allure of material wealth and the promise of success may tempt us to neglect our inner well-being in the pursuit of economic gain.

Yet, the ancient wisdom of various cultures reminds us that economic prosperity is not an end in itself but a means to a more profound goal—the well-being and flourishing of individuals and communities. The Native American Lakota Sioux have a concept known as “Mitakuye Oyasin,” which means “All Are Related.” This interconnected worldview recognizes that the well-being of one person is intimately connected to the well-being of all living beings and the Earth itself.

To nurture well-being before efficiency, we must embrace a human-centric approach to economics—one that prioritizes the welfare of individuals and communities over blind pursuit of growth. The concept of Gross National Happiness (GNH), developed in Bhutan, offers an alternative economic model that places well-being at the heart of policymaking.

GNH measures a country’s progress based on multiple dimensions, including psychological well-being, health, time use, cultural diversity, and environmental resilience. By shifting the focus from material wealth to holistic well-being, Bhutan endeavors to create a more balanced and fulfilling society.

Mindful consumption and conscious consumer choices can also be powerful agents of change. By supporting businesses and industries that prioritize sustainability, fair labor practices, and social responsibility, we can influence economic practices and foster a more compassionate world.

In this pursuit of a human-centric economic model, we must be willing to challenge conventional norms and reimagine societal values. Perhaps it is time to redefine success not merely in terms of financial achievements but in terms of our contribution to the well-being of others and the preservation of our planet.

“If a vessel you are carrying is already full

It is best not to add anything more”

Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu

Many of us already carry full vessels. As we journey toward a more human-centric world, let us be guided by the wisdom of ancient philosophies, the insights of contemporary thinkers, and our own intuition.

Chapter 5: Mindful Tech Usage: Reclaiming Presence in the Digital Age

In this era of unprecedented technological advancement, the boundaries between work and personal life have blurred. I work from home. Work is always just a room away. Plus, there is the ever-present allure of digital devices leads me down a rabbit hole of constant connectivity, leaving me feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from the present moment. I’m seeking to harmonize with the flow of life and deal with the impact of technology on my perception of time and presence.

The digital age has undoubtedly brought remarkable conveniences and possibilities, connecting us across vast distances and providing instant access to information. However, the constant influx of notifications and the pressure to remain continuously engaged can diminish our ability to be present and attentive to our surroundings.

The concept of “digital mindfulness” emerges as a remedy—a conscious approach to using technology that encourages us to reclaim our sense of presence and establish healthy boundaries. By practicing digital mindfulness, we can transform our devices from sources of distraction to tools that enrich our lives and deepen our connections.

Aristotle once said, “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” To reclaim a sense of presence in the digital age, we must first understand how technology influences our lives. Reflecting on our tech habits and their impact on our well-being can empower us to make mindful choices.

Time perception in the digital age is intriguing. On one hand, technology allows us to multitask and access information instantaneously, seemingly compressing time. On the other hand, the constant demands of digital devices can lead to a state of “continuous partial attention,” where we feel mentally scattered and unable to fully immerse ourselves in any one experience – a little too much time scrolling on the toilet.

Mindful tech usage invites us to create intentional spaces for rest and reflection, just as the ancient Stoics advocated for moments of retreat. Through conscious digital disconnection, we can carve out precious time for leisure, creative pursuits, and meaningful human interactions.

Yet, in the pursuit of reclaiming presence, we need not shun technology entirely. Instead, we can integrate it mindfully into our lives, aligning it with our values and aspirations. The Taoist principle of “Wu Wei,” meaning “effortless action,” reminds us to flow with the rhythm of life rather than resisting it. By mindfully using technology as a tool for growth and connection, we can harmonize with the unfolding currents of the digital age.

As we strive to reclaim presence amidst the digital landscape, let us also recognize the profound impact of time on our emotional well-being. The constant pressure to be efficient and productive can lead to what psychologist Philip Zimbardo calls “time famine,” where we feel starved for time and constantly rushed.

To develop a healthier relationship with time, we can draw inspiration from Stoicism. By focusing on what is within our control and letting go of what is not, we can free ourselves from the tyranny of time and find peace in the present moment.

As we navigate the intricate interplay of technology and time, let us remain steadfast in our commitment to be present and mindful. By cultivating digital mindfulness and embracing the wisdom of ancient philosophies, we can reclaim our sense of presence and find solace in the simplicity of being.

Chapter 6: Cultivating Creativity: Embracing the Art of Inspired Living

In the ever-accelerating rhythm of modern life, the pursuit of efficiency can inadvertently stifle the blossoming of human creativity. As a musician and writer, I have experienced firsthand the profound impact of creating space for inspiration and innovation amidst a fast-paced society. It can seem counterintuitive, but access to all the “productivity” applications and tools does not increase my creative output…usually it just distracts me, or I have to spend a lot of time learning a new program.

Many of you know the creative process is a delicate dance between the conscious and the unconscious, a dance that thrives in the realm of open possibilities and unhurried exploration. While efficiency can undoubtedly streamline certain tasks, it also runs the risk of reducing the richness of our experiences and limiting the potential for groundbreaking discoveries and epiphanies.

To truly harness the power of human creativity, we must recognize that inspiration cannot be summoned at will. Instead, it arises from the depths of our being when we create an environment conducive to its emergence. Even just an environment away from my technology and the right mindset is all I need to explore creativity.

Throughout history, countless artists, writers, and thinkers have emphasized the importance of incubating ideas in the fertile ground of contemplation. The ancient Greeks believed in the concept of “muse,” divine entities that inspired the creation of art and literature. In these moments of inspiration, artists tapped into a wellspring of creativity beyond the bounds of time and space.

Mindful tech usage, as explored in the previous chapter, also plays a crucial role in nurturing creativity. By consciously disconnecting from digital distractions, we create sacred spaces for unfiltered thinking and imaginative exploration. In the silence of such moments, our minds are free to wander, meandering through uncharted territories and unearthing novel ideas. I have gotten back to doing a lot more handwriting whether that’s journaling, short stories, or writing music.

The transformative power of creativity extends beyond the realms of art and literature; it permeates every aspect of human life. Whether we are solving complex problems, designing innovative technologies, or finding new ways to connect with one another, creativity is the wellspring from which progress emerges.

Ideas for further exploration:

  1. The link between creativity and mindfulness: How can mindfulness practices enhance our creative abilities and lead to more profound insights?
  2. The role of play and leisure in nurturing creativity: How do moments of playfulness and leisure stimulate the imagination and foster innovative thinking?

Chapter 7: The Power of Connection: Nurturing Well-Being Through Meaningful Relationships

I’m a slow learner but I’m finally understanding that our bonds with others form the threads that weave a rich and meaningful life. After 38 years, I know the profound impact of human connection on our well-being. However, in a world driven by the pursuit of efficiency – along with the other activities of life – fostering and maintaining meaningful relationships can be a challenge and it’s something I’m certainly working on.

The digital age has given rise to a well-worn paradox—while we are more connected than ever through social media and online platforms, studies show an alarming increase in feelings of loneliness and isolation. Most of us don’t need a study to tell us that! The allure of efficiency-driven communication may lead us to trade depth for brevity, as quick texts and emojis replace heartfelt conversations. In an effort to build more and better relationships, I’m saying “yes” to many more face-to-face interactions than I used to.

In cultures such as Native American beliefs and indigenous wisdom, the importance of interconnectedness with nature and each other is central to their worldview. The Lakota Sioux’s have a concept called “Mitakuye Oyasin” meaning “all are related.”

It is a prayer of oneness and harmony with all forms of life: other people, animals, birds, insects, trees and plants, and even rocks, rivers, mountains and valleys.

About: Mitakuye Oyasin (

This reminds us of the inseparable connection between all living beings, emphasizing the significance of fostering harmonious relationships not just with nature but with other humans.

As we strive to nurture well-being through meaningful relationships, we must recognize that genuine connections require time, presence, and vulnerability. The art of deep listening and empathetic communication creates a safe space for others to share their joys, sorrows, and dreams. I heard once that the Dalai Lama strives to meet each and every person as if they were an old friend he is very happy to see. I attempt to channel that feeling when engaging with people…it’s a work in progress for sure, but helps me start from a place of genuine interest and compassion.

In the United States, where efficiency is celebrated, carving out time for authentic human connection may seem challenging. Yet, the Stoics knew the value of quality over quantity, cherishing the company of a few true friends over a multitude of acquaintances. By prioritizing meaningful interactions, we cultivate a support network that enriches our lives and nurtures our emotional well-being.

Back to the Native Americans, many tribes had the concept of the “talking circle” – a place for communal sharing.

The TRADITIONAL “TALKING—CIRCLE” is a very old way of bringing NATIVE PEOPLE of all ages together in a quiet, respectful manner for the purposes of TEACHING, LISTENING, LEARNING, SHARING. When approached in the proper way, the circle can be a very powerful means of touching or bringing some degree of HEALING to the MIND, the HEART, the BODY, or the SPIRIT. One could call it a very effective form of NATIVE GROUP THERAPY.

TRADITIONAL “TALKING CIRCLE” OR “HEALING THROUGH FEELING” | Addiction Technology Transfer Center (ATTC) Network (

In these circles, individuals gather to speak and listen from the heart, creating a space of respect and understanding. In such moments, the web of interconnectedness grows stronger, and a sense of belonging unfolds with measurable improvements to health and well-being.

In the pursuit of efficiency, we may overlook the nourishing aspects of human touch and physical proximity. The Taoist concept of “Qi” recognizes the vital life force that flows through all living beings, underscoring the importance of direct, in-person connections. A warm hug, a reassuring touch, or a smile shared between friends can convey depths of emotion that words alone cannot express.

As we navigate the complexities of modern life, let us remember that true well-being springs from the richness of our relationships. In the depths of meaningful connections, we find solace, support, and a sense of belonging. By valuing human-centric interactions over fleeting efficiency, we build love and compassion that transcends the boundaries of time and space.

Chapter 8: The Art of Rest: Nurturing Cognitive and Emotional Well-Being

In the lives of just about everyone I know and meet, the art of rest doesn’t just take backseat it’s basically a dirty word. At best, rest is relegated to the status of a luxury rather than a necessity. I’m still trying to break this view of rest in my own life. I find it challenging to not be “doing something.” Usually, it is a feeling of guilt that I should be working on something that pulls me away from time of rest. Though I’m not “good” at rest yet, I’ve come to appreciate the transformative power of rest as a profound art that rejuvenates our minds, bodies, and spirits.

Rest is not mere idleness; it is an intentional act of self-compassion—a recognition of our humanity and the need to replenish our energy. In a society that glorifies constant hustle, embracing the art of rest may seem counterintuitive. Yet, the wisdom of ancient philosophies and contemporary research attests to its vital importance.

Cognitive Function and Creativity:
Efficiency-focused lives may lead us to believe that time spent resting is time wasted—time that could be dedicated to productivity and achievement. However, research shows that rest is not only essential for cognitive function but also a catalyst for creativity and problem-solving. Moments of relaxation allow our brains to consolidate information, make connections between ideas, and foster “aha” moments of insight.

The Greek philosopher Plato recognized the significance of leisure in the creative process, understanding that periods of rest and contemplation were essential for intellectual growth. By taking time away from chasing efficiency, we create fertile ground for our minds to wander, explore, and unearth new perspectives.

For both Plato and Aristotle leisure, in the sense not of inactivity but of freedom from the need to work in order to secure the necessities of life, is a prerequisite for the achievement of the highest form of human flourishing, eudaimonia.

Leisure in Classical Greek Philosophy (

Emotional Well-Being and Resilience:
The toll of constant efficiency on emotional well-being is often underestimated. The pressure to constantly achieve and succeed can lead to burnout, anxiety, and a sense of disconnectedness. In the hunt for productivity, we may suppress or neglect our emotions, failing to acknowledge their profound impact on our well-being.

In contrast, the Taoist principle of Yin and Yang reminds us of the interconnectedness of rest and action. Just as day turns into night, rest and activity coexist in a rhythmic cycle, each enhancing the other. By embracing rest as a natural counterpart to productivity, we foster emotional resilience and develop a deeper connection with our inner selves.

The Stoic philosopher Seneca recognized the power of rest when he wrote, “We must indulge the mind and from time to time allow it the leisure which is its food and strength.” In moments of rest, we honor our emotional needs and replenish our capacity to navigate life’s challenges with grace and equanimity.

Ideas for further exploration:

  1. The connection between rest and mindfulness: How can mindfulness practices during periods of rest enhance our cognitive abilities and emotional well-being?
  2. The impact of rest on problem-solving: How does taking breaks and stepping away from a challenge influence our ability to find innovative solutions?

I need to step out of the way and allow rest to enter my life in a natural way – as a natural balance to the active parts of my life. By valuing the profound impact of rest on our cognitive function, emotional well-being, and creativity, we create a harmonious state—one that celebrates the importance of both efficiency and replenishment.

Chapter 9: Embracing True Well-Being: Balance

Though this was but a cursory look at the idea of efficiency in modern (American) life, I feel it was useful for me to put these thoughts down in a place that can be referred to or shared. In the pursuit of aligning with my true nature as a musician and writer, I have come to understand that true well-being is a delicate balance among living in the situations we are dopped into, meeting our basic and higher-level needs, and fending off pressures and concepts that pull us off our natural paths while attempting to make the next breath or the next thought more and more aligned with the person we were born to be.

Efficiency, in its rightful place, can empower us to navigate the demands of modern life with grace and effectiveness. It allows us to accomplish our goals and responsibilities while creating space for what truly matters. Yet, when efficiency becomes an end in itself, it risks overshadowing the very essence of our humanity—our emotions, relationships, and moments of rest that compose the deeper importance in our lives.

Drawing wisdom from diverse sources—the philosophies of Buddhism, Taoism, Stoicism, and the Native American beliefs—we find a common thread: the recognition of the interconnectedness of all life. In the hustle and bustle of a fast-paced society, it is essential to pause and acknowledge the significance of human connection, creativity, and emotional well-being and realize that efficiency does not always lead to improved well-being.

As we embrace the art of inspired living, we nourish the creative spark within us and unlock the potential for innovative solutions to the challenges we face. By cultivating deep and meaningful relationships, we find solace, support, and a sense of belonging in the sea of humanity.

Mindful tech usage allows us to reclaim a sense of presence, honoring the value of being fully engaged in the moment. It enables us to harmonize with the flow of time and create moments of rest that replenish our minds and invigorate our spirits.

In the pursuit of human-centric economics, we recognize that the true measure of progress lies not solely in economic growth but in the well-being and flourishing of individuals, communities, and all life on Earth. Conscious consumer choices and ethical consumption become catalysts for positive change in the form of sustainability and social responsibility in our society.

The art of rest, often overlooked in the quest for productivity, emerges as a transformative force—a vital aspect of nurturing our cognitive function, emotional resilience, and overall well-being. In embracing rest, we acknowledge the rhythm of life—the dynamic interplay of activity and replenishment that sustains us on our journey.

Ideas for further exploration:

  1. Exploring mindfulness practices from different cultures: How do Buddhist mindfulness, Taoist meditation, and Stoic contemplation offer unique approaches to nurturing well-being?
  2. The role of nature in fostering well-being: How can connecting with the natural world enhance our sense of balance and harmony?

Living an “examined life” is a lifelong quest— accepting the balance that nature show us. Ancient philosophies and contemporary insights have converged, offering a map to navigate the complexities of the modern world by being open to rejecting the status quo and finding a way to become anchored in the essence of our true nature.

May we all embark on this journey, embracing true well-being beyond efficiency, and finding the beauty in the moments of life’s unfolding.


Dear Reader,

I extend my heartfelt gratitude for accompanying me on this short exploration.

May this book serve as one point on the map to aid in navigating the ever-changing essence of life in the modern world. Let us approach efficiency mindfully and not out of a default assumption. Let us honor the natural inclination to value human connection, creativity, and rest in nurturing our well-being.

If you are interested in fantastic content on a wide variety of topics that point to leading an “examined life” of well-being for all life, I highly recommend Waking Up from Sam Harris. I’m not affiliated with Sam Harris, just a fan.

With warm regards,
Pilgrim Solarrson

Further Reading

Books that delve deeper into the topics covered in the article: “Beyond Efficiency: Embracing True Well-Being in the Modern World”:

  1. “The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment” by Eckhart Tolle – Explores the importance of presence and mindfulness in living a fulfilling life.
  2. “Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience” by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi – Examines the concept of “flow” and how it leads to enhanced creativity and well-being.
  3. “The Art of Rest: How to Find Respite in the Modern Age” by Claudia Hammond – Explores the science and benefits of rest and the art of relaxation.
  4. “Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World” by Cal Newport – Offers insights into mindful tech usage and reclaiming presence in the digital age.
  5. “The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters” by Priya Parker – Explores the power of meaningful human connection and the art of creating transformative gatherings.
  6. “Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants” by Robin Wall Kimmerer – Weaves together Native American beliefs and scientific insights, exploring our interconnectedness with nature.
  7. “The Power of Meaning: Finding Fulfillment in a World Obsessed with Happiness” by Emily Esfahani Smith – Examines the pursuit of meaning and purpose in life as a key to well-being.
  8. “The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets to Happy Living” by Meik Wiking – Explores the Danish concept of “hygge,” emphasizing the importance of coziness, comfort, and connectedness.
  9. “The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life” by Michael Puett and Christine Gross-Loh – Introduces key principles from ancient Chinese philosophies and their relevance to modern life.
  10. “The Nature Fix: Why Nature Makes Us Happier, Healthier, and More Creative” by Florence Williams – Explores the healing power of nature and its impact on well-being.

These books offer diverse perspectives and further insights into the themes explored in “Beyond Efficiency,” providing an enriching reading experience for those seeking to deepen their understanding of true well-being and mindful living.